You should clearly understand how your man looks at the world:what he thinks about the relationship,what he wants from life,what are his plans,and how he intends to implement them. Ladies who are inclined to operate with their illusions instead of accurate information spend years waiting for changes for the better and turn out to be unprepared for many disappointments."When we get carried away,we tend to deceive ourselves not only about the shortcomings of the partner we choose. Often we do not want to admit the fact that his ideas about life are very different from ours. Look at the number of women who are in the position of mistresses in the hope that the man will divorce. Or those who are trying to persuade their lover to have a child,while he clearly makes it clear that this is not part of his concept of a comfortable personal life."Respect your partner Learn to hear your partner,trust him. There is no complete coincidence,people are different,and no one is i