Her husband and musical soulmate,Willy Zygier,opts for “fierce” in his foreword,ahead of “unafraid,incautious,loyal,loving and at times disagreeable”. None of which jars with the uncompromising performer fans love,nor the story as recalled by a reckless lawyer’s daughter who worked out early she “wasn’t cut out to be an employee”.
Though not as lucky,lucky,lucky as some,this suburban Melbourne girl’s resolute rise to her own self-made empire is no hardscrabble tale. In one telling press grab,just before her band Do Re Mi jets off to London to make a debut album,local journalist - and musician - Paulie Stewart accuses Conway of hubris in the light of her good fortune. The fact that she remembers suggests a concession to possibility.
With a few more decades’ hindsight,she surveys her formative years almost shocked at her own privilege. She’s modelling “just for the cash” at 18;cast as a dyed-blonde “clothes horse” in a racing car B-movie at a sexually voracious 22,then caught shoplifting from Grace Bros — “like I was going for an Olympic Gold Medal for the Sheer Brazenness event”.
“There was a real shock to the system,” she tells another journalist a few years on,“when I realised there was going to be some incredibly hard work” involved in this rock and roll lark. The injustice!
The reckoning arrives in the form of a gilded cage spun by Virgin Records UK. In a scenario that screams “1980s”,Do Re Mi are cruelly dumped and the solo frontwoman bounced from London to Los Angeles for years,all expenses paid and barely any music released,until she hits the corner of self-doubt and corporate indifference that grinds her first act to a halt.
Here Conway is brutal enough in self-reflection to include a contemptuous review from one of the London music weeklies that damns her as a pretty pop puppet. “Deborah,you poor hip bitch,” the critic concludes,“you’re gonna be one bitter old woman.” Reasons to be traumatised? She picked tough. Within three years,she’d own the insult with a multi-award-winning second album titled,as startlingly then as now,Bitch Epic.