Jennifer Lopez performed at the Super Bowl in February 2020.

Jennifer Lopez performed at the Super Bowl in February 2020.Credit:Getty

Somewhere at the heart of our obsession with age is basic evolution,Ferguson says. “Evolution theorists would say it’s a side to humanity that’s ramped up because of social media but we are genetically programmed to favour youth,particularly in women,because we know they’re going to reproduce better than their ageing counterparts,” she explains.

“Perhaps unfairly,we don’t have the same expectations for men because,as base level,we look to them for provisions,to make us feel safe and to look after our children. It’s hard to avoid the simple truth that we’re part of the animal kingdom.” This is why we allow men to age without comment,yet cannot extend the same courtesy to our women.

While Dr Ferguson,is not a fan of celebrities side-stepping simple truths about their beauty regimes (“It’s disrespectful to the sisterhood because you’re effectively undermining people’s intelligence in order to make yourself feel better”),she does insist we need to extend the likes of Lopez our support rather than our venom.

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“To quote Robert Harrison,a professor of Italian literature at Stanford,‘For the first time in human history,the young have become a model of emulation for the older population,rather than the other way around’,” she says. “Ageism is a huge problem in all areas of life and no matter how glamorous it all looks from the outside,for the likes of Jennifer Lopez,this is ultimately a workplace issue she’s dealing with. At 51,she’s competing against other women half her age and she knows it,which is why she works so hard to look far younger.”

I'm not going to lie;I've long judged age-defying celebrities for pulling the old “it's just sunscreen,water and genetics” line,but with Ferguson's words firmly in my ear,I plan to take the more sisterly approach moving forward. Trying to look 25 when you're in your 50s in order to remain what society deems employable? That's the kind of misery we don't need to contribute to.

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